Designed Pause Podcast

Living abroad can be beautiful — but it’s not always easy.
During my Designed Pause, I’ve been spending part of my time living in Saint Lucia, and while there are many upsides, I want to share some of the unexpected challenges that don’t always show up on social media.
My name is Deidra Green, and welcome to Designed Pause — a space for women who want to think through lifestyle shifts and career pauses intentionally, not romantically.
In this episode, I share:
What it’s really like arriving and departing from a small island airport
Why patience and flexibility matter when living abroad
The realities of driving, traffic, and infrastructure in Saint Lucia
How daily life works without dryers, traditional addresses, or online bill pay
What housing, landlords, and transportation actually look like
Why island life requires a different pace — and mindset
This conversation is for women who are considering living abroad or incorporating travel into a career pause and want a realistic picture, not just the highlight reel.
Living abroad isn’t about expecting things to work the same way they do in the U.S.It’s about adapting to a new way of being.
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Corporate life prepares you for many things — but not everything you need for an intentional career pause.
My name is Deidra Green, and welcome to Designed Pause, a space for women who are thoughtfully rethinking their careers and learning how to design what comes next with clarity and intention.
In this episode, I reflect on:
What corporate life prepared me for that still serves me today
Why documenting your work and keeping “receipts” matters during a pause
How project planning and time management support a hybrid career pause
Why it’s okay — and often necessary — to change direction
How building optionality reduces fear during transitions
What corporate life did not prepare me for, including trusting your instincts
Why pauses require self-trust, patience, and internal validation
This conversation is for corporate Black women who are successful on paper but want to move into their next chapter with intention — not urgency or pressure.
Corporate skills don’t disappear during a pause. They evolve.
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Many women worry that if they slow down, they’re somehow falling behind — behind their peers, behind a timeline, or behind the life they were “supposed” to be building.
But slowing down intentionally is not the same as losing momentum.
My name is Deidra Green, and welcome to Designed Pause — a space for women who are rethinking their careers, their pace, and the lives they’re designing with intention.
In this episode, we explore:
Why slowing down feels so uncomfortable in high-achieving environments
The difference between intentional pauses and unintentional stagnation
How invisible work like reflection, planning, and discernment actually counts
Why comparison makes thoughtful decisions harder
How to reframe your pause as alignment, not delay
This conversation is for corporate Black women who are successful on paper but know that speed without alignment comes at a cost.
Slowing down doesn’t mean you’re falling behind.Sometimes it’s how you finally get clear on where you’re going.
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After money, the second biggest reason many women hesitate to take a career pause is identity.
Who are you without your job title?What will people think?What will you say when someone asks, “So… what do you do?”
In this episode of Designed Pause, host Deidra Green explores the deeper, often unspoken fear behind stepping away from work: the loss of external validation and the pressure to remain “successful on paper.”
As a millennial who checked all the boxes and climbed the ladder, Deidra reflects on how true fulfillment in her life has often come from moments that went against the grain — decisions others might have labeled mistakes or risks.
This conversation is about reclaiming your identity beyond your title, trusting that nothing you’ve accomplished can ever be taken from you, and learning how to protect your vision when others don’t yet understand it.
✨ In this episode, we discuss:
Why identity is a major barrier to taking an intentional career pause
How job titles become entangled with self-worth
Why your skills, experience, and lessons always come with you
What people at the end of their lives actually regret — and what they don’t
How to guard your heart and protect your ideas during a transition
Why you are worthy simply because you exist
How a Designed Pause can help you realign with what truly matters
🔗 Resources mentioned:
Mel Robbins Podcast episode with Dr. Karl Pillemer (on end-of-life regrets)
Free journaling prompts to help you reflect on identity and desire
The 7 Primal Questions (book) — to explore the deeper question driving your ambition

Money is the main reason most women count themselves out of taking a career pause — and that concern is valid.
My name is Deidra Green, and welcome to Designed Pause, a space for women who want to take an intentional career pause without creating unnecessary financial stress.
In this video, we talk honestly about money and career breaks, including:
Why money fears stop women from pausing — even when they want to
The importance of planning a career pause instead of “jumping ship”
How to take inventory of your finances without judgment
Being honest about the lifestyle you want during your pause
The difference between expectations and financial reality
The real financial changes I made to design my own pause
I share practical examples from my life — downsizing, restructuring expenses, using credit strategically, and increasing cash flow — not as a blueprint, but as proof that there are more options than you might think.
This conversation isn’t about deprivation or hustle.It’s about honesty, planning, and designing a pause that actually works for your life.
If you’re a corporate Black woman considering a career break, sabbatical, or transition — this video will help you think differently about money and possibility.
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What I thought a career break would be — and what it actually is — are two very different things. My name is Deidra Green, and welcome to  @DesignedPause  , a space for women who are thinking about taking an intentional career pause.
In this episode, I share:
Why a career break must be planned before you take it
How a lack of planning can turn a pause into a new source of stress
What my first career pause taught me after leaving a director role at a large financial firm
How I’ve been intentionally preparing for my second pause for years
The three types of career pauses: Passive, Active, and Hybrid
I’m currently on my second career pause — traveling between the United States and Saint Lucia, doing contract work, and building Designed Pause — and this time, the difference is intentional planning.
This conversation is for corporate Black women who are successful on paper but know something needs to shift. Not because they’re tired — but because they’re uninspired or misaligned. If you’re considering a career break, sabbatical, or simply want exposure to new options, this episode will help you rethink what a pause actually requires.
Here is a link to the tool I mention in the episode: www.designedpause.com
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Taking a career break after senior leadership is not a decision I made lightly — and it’s not the first time I’ve done it. My name is Deidra Green, and this is my second intentional career pause. The first time I stepped away from corporate life was over ten years ago, and that pause led me to one of the most transformative chapters of my life — starting an esthetics business, gaining clarity about what I wanted, and ultimately landing my corporate dream job.
Over the next five years, I grew from field trainer to Vice President, all because I took the time to pause, listen to my own voice, and move with intention. In this foundational episode of Designed Pause, I share:
• Why I chose to take another career break after senior leadership
• What an intentional career pause actually looks like
• How listening to your own voice can create clarity and new options
• Why you’re not tired — you’re uninspired or misaligned.
This podcast is for corporate Black women who are successful on paper but quietly questioning what’s next. Not because something is wrong — but because alignment matters. During this pause, I’ll be traveling between the United States and Saint Lucia, doing remote contract work, and documenting what it looks like to intentionally design your life in real time.
If you’re considering a career break, a sabbatical, or simply want exposure to new options, you’re in the right place.
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